rework formatting with cmake-format (#4627)

* merge clangify and cmakify into format.sh

update desktop lint workflow to 22.04

print cmake-format version as well

um, rename things?

add extra examples to format.sh --help
add option to not run clang-format
fix version display in .ci/lint_cpp.sh
fix relative paths in format.sh

fix formatting dirs

* run ./format.sh --cmake --branch ""

* revert formatting of cmake comments

.cmake-format.json

@@ -102,5 +102,8 @@
       "decisions. See the documentation for more information."
     ],
     "layout_passes": {}
+  },
+  "markup": {
+    "enable_markup": false
   }
-}
+}